A Better Way to Plan an Intimate Micro Wedding
Planning a micro wedding near St. Louis? Discover how the 1860 Schulhaus Signature Micro Wedding Experience makes intimate wedding planning simple, organized, and enjoyable.
Helping couples spend less time planning—and more time looking forward to their marriage.
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How the 1860 Schulhaus Signature Micro Wedding Experience Makes Planning Simple
Planning a micro wedding should feel exciting—not exhausting. Yet many couples quickly find themselves juggling vendor meetings, comparing quotes, answering emails, and trying to coordinate every moving piece. At 1860 Schulhaus, a micro wedding venue near St. Louis, we believed there had to be a better way to plan an intimate wedding, which is why we created the 1860 Schulhaus Signature Micro Wedding Experience.
When people hear the words all-inclusive wedding, they often think of convenience.
They're right—but that's only part of the story.
We didn't create the Signature Micro Wedding Experience because we wanted to bundle services together. We created it because we kept seeing the same thing happen to our couples.
They weren't struggling because there weren't enough talented vendors.
They were struggling because they had too many decisions to make.
Wedding Planning Has Become a Full-Time Job
Today's couples are busy.
They're building careers, buying homes, raising children, planning moves, traveling for work, and trying to enjoy being engaged—all while attempting to coordinate one of the biggest celebrations of their lives.
Wedding planning often turns into dozens of browser tabs, spreadsheets, vendor questionnaires, contracts, payment schedules, Pinterest boards, emails, and phone calls.
Every vendor has a different process.
Different timelines.
Different expectations.
Different personalities.
Individually, none of those things are difficult.
Together, they become exhausting.
We Started Asking a Different Question
Instead of asking:
"How can we offer more services?"
We started asking:
"How can we make this easier?"
That question changed everything.
Over the years, we've had the privilege of working alongside incredible caterers, DJs, florists, officiants, and other wedding professionals who consistently deliver exceptional experiences for our couples.
Many of them already knew one another.
They understood our venue.
They communicated well together.
Most importantly, they genuinely cared about creating an incredible wedding day—not just doing their individual job.
We realized we already had something special.
We simply needed to bring it together.
A Team—Not Just a Vendor List
One of the biggest differences between the Signature Micro Wedding Experience and many "all-inclusive" packages is that this isn't a random collection of vendors.
It's a team.
These are professionals who have worked together at 1860 Schulhaus time and time again.
They know how the ceremony flows.
They understand our timeline.
They anticipate each other's needs.
They solve problems before couples ever know they existed.
That kind of familiarity creates a calmer, smoother wedding day.
Instead of several businesses working independently, everyone is working toward one shared goal: giving you an incredible wedding experience.
You Still Get to Make It Yours
One of the biggest misconceptions about all-inclusive weddings is that they're cookie-cutter.
Ours isn't.
You'll still choose your menu.
Your ceremony.
Your music.
Your floral style.
Your décor selections.
Your signature cocktails.
Your timeline.
Your wedding should still feel like your wedding.
We've simply removed the overwhelming parts of planning so you can spend more time enjoying the exciting parts.
Why Choose a Micro Wedding?
A micro wedding isn't about having less—it's about making room for more of what matters.
More meaningful conversations.
More time with the people you love.
More moments where you're fully present instead of rushing from one obligation to the next.
At 1860 Schulhaus, we've seen firsthand that intimate celebrations often create the biggest memories. Couples aren't spending the day greeting hundreds of guests or following an exhausting timeline. They're sharing dinner together, enjoying every toast, and actually experiencing the wedding they've spent months planning.
The Signature Micro Wedding Experience was built around that philosophy—making it easy to create a beautiful celebration without the stress that often comes with traditional wedding planning.
It's About More Than Saving Money
People often ask if an all-inclusive package saves money.
Sometimes it does.
Sometimes the total investment is similar to hiring vendors individually.
But that's actually missing the point.
The biggest thing couples save is time.
And stress.
And decision fatigue.
When you aren't coordinating multiple contracts, chasing vendor emails, comparing quotes, or wondering whether everyone is on the same page, you get something that's difficult to put a price on:
Peace of mind.
It Isn't Right for Everyone
We'll be honest.
Not every couple is the right fit for the Signature Micro Wedding Experience.
If you've dreamed for years about interviewing photographers, designing every centerpiece from scratch, or bringing together your own team of vendors, we genuinely support that.
In fact, that's exactly why we still offer our Micro Wedding Package.
Some couples love creating every detail.
Others simply want someone they trust to guide them through the process.
Neither approach is wrong.
Our job isn't to convince you one is better.
Our job is to help you discover which one fits you best.
The Experience We Wanted to Create
After hundreds of weddings, we've noticed something.
Couples rarely tell us they wish they had spent more weekends comparing florist quotes or researching DJs.
What they remember is laughing with family while getting ready.
Having time to eat dinner together.
Actually talking to every guest.
Being fully present during their ceremony.
Feeling calm instead of rushed.
That's the experience we wanted to create.
The Signature Micro Wedding Experience isn't about doing more.
It's about helping you enjoy more.
Ready to Learn More?
If you're looking for an intimate wedding near St. Louis and want a planning experience that's thoughtful, organized, and genuinely enjoyable, we'd love to show you around.
Schedule a tour of 1860 Schulhaus, ask every question you have, and let's talk honestly about whether the Signature Micro Wedding Experience is the right fit for your celebration.
Whether you choose our Signature Micro Wedding Experience or our Micro Wedding Package, our goal is exactly the same:
To help you spend less time planning your wedding—and more time looking forward to your marriage.
Frequently Asked Questions About the 1860 Schulhaus Signature Micro Wedding Experience
What is included in the 1860 Schulhaus Signature Micro Wedding Experience?
Our all-inclusive package brings together nearly everything you'll need for your wedding day under one coordinated experience. It includes your venue, catering, hosted bar service, DJ & MC services, floral design, wedding cake and guest desserts, décor, a licensed officiant, planning support, and a personalized wedding website with RSVP tracking. Instead of coordinating multiple vendors yourself, we bring together a trusted team that works seamlessly to create an enjoyable planning experience.
How many guests are included?
The Signature Micro Wedding Experience is designed for up to 50 guests, with options to accommodate additional guests up to 70 if your celebration grows.
Can we customize our wedding?
Absolutely. While we've simplified the planning process, you'll still make the meaningful decisions. You'll select your menu, music, floral style, décor, ceremony details, signature cocktails, and more. Our goal is to make planning easier—not take away your creativity.
Can we use our own vendors?
The Signature Micro Wedding Experience is intentionally built around our carefully selected vendor partners who know our venue and work together regularly. This allows us to provide a seamless experience from planning through your wedding day. If using your own vendors is important to you, our Micro Wedding Package may be a better fit.
Do you offer payment plans?
Yes. We offer a simple four-payment schedule that allows couples to spread the investment throughout their planning journey, making budgeting more manageable.
Is the Signature Micro Wedding Experience only for micro weddings?
Yes. This package was intentionally designed for intimate weddings of approximately 50 guests and up to 70. We believe smaller guest lists allow couples to spend more meaningful time with the people they love while enjoying a more relaxed and personal celebration.
Where is 1860 Schulhaus located?
1860 Schulhaus is a historic micro wedding venue in New Melle, Missouri, just west of St. Louis and minutes from Wentzville, St. Charles, Augusta, and Defiance. We offer both beautiful indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces, making us a convenient destination for couples throughout the greater St. Louis area.
How do I know if the Signature Micro Wedding Experience is right for me?
If the idea of managing multiple vendor contracts, timelines, and planning details feels overwhelming, this package was designed with you in mind. If you'd rather spend your engagement enjoying the experience instead of coordinating every moving piece, we'd love to show you how the Signature Micro Wedding Experience can make planning feel simple, organized, and enjoyable.
What happens after we book?
Once you've reserved your date, we'll guide you through the planning process step by step. From introducing you to our trusted vendor team to helping you make design selections, organize your timeline, and prepare for your wedding day, we're here to make the experience feel organized, enjoyable, and as stress-free as possible.
Ready to learn more? We'd love to meet you, show you around 1860 Schulhaus, and help you decide whether the Signature Micro Wedding Experience is the right fit for your wedding—no pressure, just an honest conversation.
Micro Wedding FAQ
How much does a micro wedding cost in St. Louis?
Most micro weddings in St. Louis cost between $8,000 and $15,000, with many couples landing around $11,000 total depending on the venue, catering, bar service, photography, and overall priorities.
Can you have a wedding for $10,000 in St. Louis?
Yes. Many couples can plan a beautiful micro wedding around $10,000 to $12,000 by keeping the guest list smaller and being intentional about where they spend.
Why are micro weddings more affordable than traditional weddings?
Micro weddings are oftenMicro weddings are often more affordable because you’re hosting fewer guests, which reduces costs tied to catering, bar service, rentals, and overall event scale.
Does a micro wedding still include a reception?
Yes. A micro wedding usually includes a ceremony and reception, and it can also include cocktail hour, dinner, dessert, toasts, and dancing.
Are micro weddings worth it?
For many couples, yes. A micro wedding can create a more personal, relaxed, and memorable experience while still feeling like a full wedding celebration.
