Micro Wedding Packages in St. Charles County, Missouri
A micro wedding is an intentional celebration with a smaller guest list — typically 25 to 50 guests — allowing couples to focus on connection, experience, and meaning instead of managing a large production. At 1860 Schulhaus, micro weddings aren’t an add-on or a downsized version of something bigger. They’re what we do best. Our historic Schulhaus in New Melle, Missouri is designed for couples who want a wedding day that feels personal, calm, and thoughtfully planned. With indoor and outdoor ceremony options, space for both the ceremony and reception, and flexible vendor choices, micro weddings here feel intimate, welcoming, and truly yours.
Why Couples Choose Micro Weddings
Couples choose micro weddings because they want to be fully present. Smaller guest counts allow for meaningful conversations, relaxed timelines, and thoughtful details that often get lost in larger events. Instead of feeling rushed or overwhelmed, couples can actually enjoy their day and spend time with every guest.
Is a Micro Wedding the Same as an Elopement?
While micro weddings and elopements both focus on intentional celebrations, they are not the same. A micro wedding includes a guest list, a full ceremony, and often a reception — just on a smaller scale. Couples still experience the traditions and moments they care about, without the pressure of hosting a large crowd.
What Makes Micro Weddings at 1860 Schulhaus Different
Designed Specifically for Smaller Celebrations.
1860 Schulhaus was intentionally designed for smaller, meaningful celebrations. Unlike large venues that simply accommodate smaller guest counts, our space was created with micro weddings in mind.
Our micro wedding package is designed for 25–50 guests, allowing for comfortable seating, thoughtful layouts, and a relaxed atmosphere where couples can truly connect with their guests. With not only fewer people - but the right people - in the room, the day naturally feels more personal, intentional, and memorable.
Ceremony and Reception in One Seamless Location
One of the things couples appreciate most about 1860 Schulhaus is the ability to host their entire celebration in one place. The venue easily transitions between ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, allowing the day to flow naturally without guests needing to travel between locations.
Couples can choose an indoor ceremony in front of the stone fireplace, an outdoor ceremony backed by the woods, or a combination of both depending on the season and their vision for the day.
A Setting That Feels Personal, Not Overwhelming
1860 Schulhaus blends historic charm, natural light, and flexible indoor and outdoor spaces that work beautifully for weddings year-round. The intimate scale of the venue allows every area to feel welcoming and connected rather than spread out or impersonal.
Couples also appreciate our flexible vendor policy, which allows them to bring in the caterers and vendors that best fit their style, priorities, and budget. This flexibility makes it easier to create a celebration that reflects who you are while still enjoying a thoughtfully designed space.
What’s included in micro wedding package?
Micro Wedding packages start at $3200. Check out our pricing page for more information.
Two Ways to Plan Your Micro Wedding
Want Us to Handle the Vendors, Too?
Our Schulhaus Signature All-Inclusive Wedding Package combines everything included in our Micro Wedding Package with the trusted vendors and services needed to bring the celebration together—all coordinated through 1860 Schulhaus under one agreement.
Starting at $11,860 for up to 50 guests
Everything in our Micro Wedding Package, plus:
Full-service buffet catering
Full open bar with beer, wine, spirits, mixers, soft drinks, and water
Professional DJ and MC services for the ceremony and reception
Licensed wedding officiant
Wedding floral package, including a bouquet and boutonniere, centerpieces, and statement pieces
Wedding cake for the couple and desserts for guests
Planning guidance and coordination with the included vendors
One streamlined agreement and payment process
You’ll spend less time searching for vendors, managing separate contracts, and coordinating all the moving pieces—and more time enjoying the experience of planning your wedding.
Our micro-wedding package is designed to simplify planning while still allowing couples to personalize their celebration.
Each package includes:
5 hours of venue time, with the option to add additional hours
Space for both ceremony and reception in one location
Indoor ceremony option by the fireplace or outdoor ceremony under the arbor
Full use of the wedding party preparation suites
Personalized décor design using our curated in-house collection, including setup and teardown.
A wedding cake for the couple
Champagne toast for guests age 21 and older.
Couples also have the flexibility to bring in their own licensed and insured vendors.
Every micro wedding at 1860 Schulhaus begins with the same thoughtfully designed venue experience. From there, you can choose the planning approach that feels right for you.
Select our standard Micro Wedding Package and bring in the licensed and insured vendors who best fit your vision, priorities, and budget—or choose our Schulhaus Signature All-Inclusive Wedding Package and let us coordinate the core pieces for you.
Photography is not included but may be added separately. Upgraded menus, floral selections beyond the package allowance, additional rental time, specialty beverages, and other personalized enhancements are also available.
Package pricing is available for weddings held through 2027. Please inquire for 2028 pricing.
Which Micro Wedding Experience Is Right for You?
Both options include the same thoughtfully designed venue experience. The difference is how much you want to handle yourself. Choose your own vendors with our standard Micro Wedding Package, or let us bring the core services together with our Schulhaus Signature All-Inclusive Package.
Here’s a simple side-by-side comparison to help you decide:
Frequently Asked Questions
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Most micro weddings include 25–50 guests, allowing for an intimate and meaningful experience, but can be increased to a maximum of 70 guests.
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Micro-weddings are often more cost-efficient, but the real benefit is flexibility. With fewer guests, couples can allocate their budget toward the details that matter most—such as photography, food, décor, or a unique venue—rather than stretching the budget across a large guest list.
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Our micro-wedding package is designed to simplify planning while still allowing couples to personalize their celebration.
Each package includes:
5 hours of venue time, with the option to add additional hours
Space for both ceremony and reception in one location
Indoor ceremony option by the fireplace or outdoor ceremony backed by the woods
Full use of the bride and groom suites
Curated décor and table styling already in place
A wedding cake for the couple
Champagne toast for all guests
Couples also have the flexibility to bring in their own licensed and insured vendors.
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Yes. While many essentials are included to simplify planning, couples still have plenty of flexibility to personalize their celebration. You are welcome to bring in your preferred licensed vendors, incorporate additional décor, and design a wedding experience that reflects your style.
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Yes! We have spaces for both ceremonies and receptions. Our venue offers both indoor and outdoor options, including our outdoor pergola and indoor stone fireplace that create beautiful backdrops for ceremonies.
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Absolutely. Micro-weddings still include many of the traditions couples love—ceremony, dinner, toasts, cake cutting, and dancing—just on a smaller scale. With fewer guests and simplified logistics, couples often find the day feels more relaxed and more meaningful.
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Yes, We offer Elopement packages for those looking for small intimate ceremony without the full reception. Please see our packages for more details.
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Besides weddings, we host baby showers, wedding showers, rehearsal dinners, birthdays, corporate events, and community gatherings. We offer both daytime (10am-2pm) and evening (5pm-12am) rental options for these events.
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Based on our experience, many of our weddings are typically booked about six months in advance rather than a full year- but we have been known to do micro weddings in less than 90 days- based on availability of course! Contact us to check current availability for your preferred date.
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Yes. Couples may choose our standard Micro Wedding Package and select their own licensed and insured vendors, or upgrade to our Schulhaus Signature All-Inclusive Wedding Package.
The all-inclusive option includes everything in our Micro Wedding Package, plus catering, a full open bar, DJ and MC services, an officiant, wedding florals, the couple’s cake, guest desserts, and coordination of the included vendors—all under one streamlined agreement.